As I grew up in Lillooet and have many Indigenous friends, I have shared many fire circles before. Not one has ever been the same. Whoever leads the circle always sets the intention, and the intentions you bring to that day set the whole ceremony.
The artist Clayton Gauthier who spoke and opened the ceremony that day brought to us a perspective about art and the healing it can bring us.
Later, we shared in a drumming circle. I was able to connect with so many people in the circle through music in a way that is so different than any other. Music does not need conversation yet brings emotions that are shared through the tones of the voices singing together and the drums pulsing through your heart. My best friend had just passed away, and the drummers decided to play the āEagle songā, which is a song about healing after someone passed away. When we played it, I could not help but feel my emotions and break all my barriers. Also, the support and connection I felt through the people around me without even talking was directly healing my emotions in ways I didnāt expect.
Circles are supposed to give us all voice. Traditionally we have whoever speaks in front of us and the rest of the people listen. Whoever speaks never sees the backs of the people in front of them or that is considered rude. In a circle, everyone has an equal opportunity to talk and be listened to, there is no leader above anyone and no need to stand in front stage. You also have people around you to support you if you need it and the audience is on equal footing with everyone. A community should be heard equally, supported beside each other, and could be leaders with their people. We all have something to share and sometimes we cannot stand in front of a room because it makes us feel vulnerable and alone; in this way, a circle of sharing is superior as you will never feel alone or like you are the only person with all eyes on you but an equal member of the community with all.